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According to formula of happiness --> freedom minus overthinking and minus drama, we need to maintain another thing and thats how we react with critics and how we filtering some words from others. 

In this case, I want to share how to make an app to maintain that (lol --ofcourse NO haha). 

In this case Id like to share an example by sharing famous fable from aesop :Two men and his donkey"

Two men and his donkey is the story of the journey of a man and the boy (his son) who took their donkey to sell to a distant market. Along the way to the market , they walk by several groups of people who comment on them as they pass. Each group has a different point of view and criticsm abt the way they traveled.

First the man and the boy walk alongside the donkey. As they were walking along by his side a locals passed them and said, “You fools, what is a donkey for but to ride upon?” So the man put the boy on the donkey, and they went on their way.

But soon they passed a group of men, one of whom said, “See that lazy youngster, he lets his father walk while he rides.”Then this words persuades him to ride the donkey himself and let the boy walk.

But they hadn’t gone far when they passed two women, one of whom said to the other, “Shame on that lazy lout to let his poor little son trudge along.”

Later still he gets convinced that both he and the boy should ride the donkey. By this time they had come to the town, and the passersby began to jeer and point at them. The man stopped and asked what they were scoffing at.The men said, “Aren’t you ashamed of yourself for overloading that poor donkey of yours — you and your hulking son?”

Finally, the man and boy got off and tried to think what to do. They thought and they thought, until at last they cut down a pole, tied the donkey’s feet to it, and raised the pole and the donkey to their shoulders. They went along amid the laughter of all who met them until they came to a bridge, when the donkey, getting one of his feet loose, kicked out and caused the boy to drop his end of the pole. In the struggle the donkey fell over the bridge, and his forefeet being tied together, he was drowned.

Then I try to criticizes this fable with happiness formula 😁

Happineess = Freedom - Overthinking - Less drama 

as u can see in here the man and the boy is more overthinking and thats why both are makin drama in this fable.

Moral of this story is whateva we say, what eva we do, people will always find something to say and if u please all then u please none. So, just do what you want to do as long it makes u happy and it doesnt harm other people :) 

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The interesting abt the story is if u can discuss with another point of view. And the other point of view in here is about marketing. I found another site who not only talk abt moral of this story but how to sell the donkey as a lesson for marketing and u can find this in this site : The Man, The Boy and The Donkey (solve360.com). On this site the author actually criticizes it. And here is an excerpt from the contents of this website : 

I think two men and his donkey perspective from marketing is so rare, and this one triggering me too to think out of the box too (in case for marketing). So, I try to think how about if we can see the bussiness probability in this story. Let see some rude words from stranger in this story, if we compare w reality , rude words can make psychological prob, and thats why there is a psychologist for it, or maybe bussiness for healing (lol) :P 

As well as another things, I see the same pattern too. If there is a case or problem there will be a  probability bussiness  for it, and its normal. It happens everytime and everywhere. 

So just like before , let see how happiness formula can solve this too (even with marketing lesson) :P 

Happiness = Freedom - Overthinking - Less Drama 

Just imagine that u feel broken after some shitty words - then u already get overthinking and more drama --> then u need a healing time even by product or by ur own time --> and thats the probability for bussiness that can offering a healing one--> then u got it - after all u  feel freedom minus ovrthinking and minus less drama --> Happiness 

Or in another version 

In here ure not feel anything even after shitty words so u just feel free , not overthinking or even drama --> Happiness --. Then u see some healing product --> u can shoose wisely because ure in a good condition and not in emotional one.

So, thats the way of the formula it is 😀maybe we can insert this too for another fable 😁